If you have grown children then you'll understand where i'am coming from, I have a daughter who i will refer to as Dee, She is my life, we have been so close we share everything, Dee is married with 2 two beautiful children, here is the problem[ her husband recently pulled a gun on her, she left him and stayed with us for  a couple weeks, she got a restaining order against him,then we found out that she is being mentally abused by him, She took him back in fear of him, now we're not aloud to see her, except for about 12 min at a time, QUESTION ; what should we do, or should we leave it alone?